I've put together my first instructional document on the wiki:
http://www.knoppmythwiki.org/index.php? ... ckendHowTo

Let me know if anything looks confusing, or just make the changes yourself if you know what you're doing...

The process is still a little cludgey, I'm working on getting the best process down.

I'm having a little trouble.

i followed the instructions from the wiki on both boxs, but the frontend of my slave backend on reboot now asks me to enter the language again and the database settings... I think mainly it can't find the database and want s the database hostname (or IP)

What should I put for that? In this type setup is there only one database or does each backend has its own database and I should put the local ip address rather than localhost or the backend master's ip address.